Birth is the “START OF LIFE”
Beauty is the “ART OF LIFE”
Love is the “PART OF LIFE”
DEATH IS THE “END OF LIFE”

But................FRIENDSHIP is the “HEART OF LIFE”

This making me thinking where are all of my friends this day :) Are they busy..... are they well... perhaps I should " catch " them and get some smile out of them :)

Sometime.. in life we are too busy to realise and drown ourself in our own little world and forgetting that there are some people out there that actually thinking of you and missing you and your thoughts... but we are too lazy to even think about it sometime huh ?? I am guilty as charge !!

Listen, I am not going to rambling about it but will try to fix my attitude and have some more time for my friends... Let me try okay :) I mean... I might not be in touch as much as I used to but that doesn't and never lessen my thought of you guys and my affections to each one of you... You guys are in my heart and my mind - my eyes might not always seeing you but my thought are always with you....

With that... let me share this with you... so you guys know that Life is How We Make It and what's important is sometime its not what you dream about but what lays in front of you.....

Here it goes....

A friend of mine opened his wife's underwear drawer and picked up a silk paper wrapped package:

"This, - he said - isn't any ordinary package."

He unwrapped the box and stared at both the silk paper and the box.

"She got this the first time we went to New York , 8 or 9 years ago. She has never pu t it on, was saving it for a special occasion. Well, I guess this is it. He got near the bed and placed the gift box next to the other clothings he was taking to the funeral house, his wife had just died. He turned to me and said:



"Never save something for a special occasion. Every day in your life is a special occasion".

I still think those words changed my life.

Now I read more and clean less.

I sit on the porch without worrying about anything.

I spend more time with my family, and less at work.

I understood that life should be a source of experience to be lived up to, not survived through. I no longer keep anything. I use crystal glasses every day.. I'll wear new clothes to go to the supermarket, if i feel like it.

I don't save my special perfume for special occasions, I use it whenever I want to. The words "Someday..." and "One Day..." are fading away from my dictionary. If it's worth seeing, listening or doing, I want to see, listen or do it now. I don't know what my friend's wife would have done if she knew she wouldn't be there the next morning, this nobody can tell. I think she might have called her relatives and closest friends.
She might call old friends to make peace over past quarrels. I'd like to think she would go out for Chinese, her favorite food. It's these small things that I would regret not doing, if I knew my time had come.

I would regret it, because I would no longer see the friends I would meet, letters... that I wanted to write

"One of these days".

I would regret and feel sad, because I didn't say to my brother and sisters, son and daughters, not times enough at least, how much

I love them.

Now, I try not to delay, postpone or keep anything that could bring laughter and joy into our lives..
And, on each morning, I say to myself that this could be a special day..

Each day, each hour, each minute, is special.


If you got this, it's because someone cares for you and because, probably, there's someone you care about.

If you're too busy to send this out to other people and you say to yourself that you will send it "One of these days", remember that "One day" is far away... or might never come...